By: Adeshinah Adewuyi
The first gift that you can give your son or daughter is to marry a good wife or a good husband
I don’t say you should marry someone because of riches or beauty it’s just like going to a forest because of the first sight of a beautiful flower. But marry because of Love ( so that when it seems like there is no money again or beauty fades you will stay ), Beauty, and money.
I do not say you should look for a Pastors daughter or imam son because there is different between religion and way of life. Religion is just trying to change our way of life but I don’t think that it can change everything
If you like a gentle soul, you can go for it but I don’t say that marrying a gentle soul is the key to successful marriage but marry someone that if you advice him/her ten times, he/she will heed to your advice at least eight times ( don’t marry a fool so that he/she won’t lead you astray )
Marry someone that knows the different between wife and maid and different between husband and a slave.
Marry from a good family
And if you know that you can’t respect and support him, you don’t have any reason to marry him and if you can’t take care of her, just leave her alone
what is marriage
It’s physical and spiritual union of two people (man and woman) to become husband and wife
importance of marriage
- Is the beginning of family
- Love and affection
- Growth of the family
- Nurturing a new life together
What’s mostly important in marriage
- Constant communication between husband, wife and children.
- Sexual intercourse