If Love Fail You
By: Adeshinah Adewuyi
If love fail for the first time: it’s not your fault my dear, it’s because you’re new to love and you haven’t get the brain behind a true lover. You’re in love with all the excitement and the only thing that you can think of is pleasure and nothing else
And any hurt or harassment from your spouse can make you think otherwise and breakup with him or her if you don’t have an understanding partner, or good therapist.
if love fail for the second time: it means that you still belief in wrong fact about love and human; example
if he/she truly loves me, he/she must love everything I do the way I do it
But you’re dealing with human being and everyone of us has his or her own criteria.
Whatever your husband gives you the authority to do, I may not give my wife the authority to do the same thing, its not because that I hate her but I just can’t tolerate it as human
If my wife wish to go to night club, we must go together because I just can’t sleep at home and my wife will be in club.
if love fail for the third time: it means the problem is you, is either
He/she is a disobedient human or He/she is rude or proud or He/she is an annoying human or he/she is a complainant or a fool or dangerous or not trustworthy etc so try and give love another chance and restructure your belief about love and human.
But apart from the above mentioned, circumstances at times can bring LOVE TO AN END
Distance between lover without communication or Death of a lover or disaster that just break up the relationship etc
So if circumstances occur, we can’t conclude that it’s love failure.