- SECRET TO EVERLASTING LOVE
BY: ADESHINAH ADEWUYI
I call it secret to everlasting love and not secret to everlasting relationship because someone can be in a relationship many years and his/her spouse would be like “if not because I need a partner, I won’t marry you” and you can also quit a relationship and still love the person that you quit with.
If such thing happen, it means that you have all the reasons to love the person but have only one or two reason to quit the relationship.
Maybe he/she always complain
Maybe he/she always neglect etc
Now, the secret to everlasting love is
1. Total submission to the will of Love: you can see that love is sacrifice.
He/she like you and later he/she love you and love is what bond both of you in relationship, and since nobody is perfect, you will surely complain about one or two things that will affect your love for your spouse
Note that you have to dote too if what you are about to complain about doesn’t affect your love for him or her And this is exactly where submission is required.
I know that submission of oneself to someone is not easy even if you wish to submit, and your mind doesn’t concur with your decision there would be error of the mind and you will just be trying.
So before your mind is free for submission, you must
- BELIEF IN HIM OR HER
- TRUST HIM OR HER
and its not easy to belief or trust someone until they prove themselves worthy to believed and trust
Love can control belief
And belief can control relationship