Interferer In Relationship

Interferer In Relationship

By: Adeshinah Adewuyi

Sometimes, its seems difficult for us to take a decision on our own especially when the situation is critical, and apart from that average percent of what we are doing in life depends on what we are influenced to do or told to do. This become the reasons why we can’t do without interferer in a relationship.

Who Is Interferer

Interferer can be refer to as third party that you allow to interfere in your relationship.

Interferer could be social media friends, family, therapist etc

Who Is your Interferer

The person that you allow to interfere in your relationship will determine if the relationship will be stronger or weaker

Remember that only birds of the same feather can fly together.

For example

If a wife is seeking for advice from a prostitute, the only advice that a prostitute can give to a wife is to be a prostitute too because that’s what she belief and that’s what she can teach.

Interferer usually come from a person that we respect, or adore, or admire, or someone that we belief that he/she is always right, or someone that can give us good reasons to do something or someone very close to us.

What Is Interference

I defined Interference as the act of allowing Interferer to intervene in a relationship.

The only way that Interference may occur is if the Interferer succeeded in changing  the mind of the person that he/she  is interfering.

Difference Between Interferer And Influencer

You may decided to argue with me about the difference between interferer and influencer but I will explain before your argument

Influencer change the life of people with or without direct effort and people copy their lifestyle and follow their steps in whatever they do.

Influencer can be a musician, actor/actress, pastor, imam, etc but most influencers were noble person in the society.

the person that you allow to influence you will determine your way of life and how you relate with people.

While interferer advice and make changes about something, anything and everything that you give him/her the chance to

For example

Someone can interfere about your personal life, about relationship, about health etc.

Effect of interference in romantic relationship

Interferer can make your relationship stronger or even weak the relationship it depends on the type of interferer that you allow in relationship

I don’t say that you shouldn’t allow anyone to interfere in your relationship but make sure that

  • Your interferer support the relationship before seek advice from him/her
  • Make sure that you don’t allow too much interferer for example; seeking for advice from social media fans
  • Don’t tell everybody that wish to hear about your relationship either good or bad always remember that you’re the one that knows the reason why you love him/her and his/her character
  • Don’t be eager to get what others are getting in their relationship
  • Don’t be influence by what majority is doing if you understand each other because your relationship is your relationship not theirs
  • Seek advice from love theorist that have best knowledge about love and relationship

 

 

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