Effect Of Molestation In Romantic Relationship
By: Adeshinah Adewuyi
Its not possible for me to conclude that your relationship with your spouse will always go smoothly every time, without argument,or annoyance.
The reasons is that
let us belief that nothing is permanent
Mood can change anytime
Feelings can change anytime etc
let us belief that nobody is perfect
Which means that we’re all liable to make mistakes which may leads to
woman like frustrating
To an extent that you can even forget that you’re a man and if you ain’t patience enough, it may leads to something else
Sometimes they love doing what you’ve told them not to do.
men are frustrating
They love monitoring their spouse too much and love complaining especially when they are in love with someone, until that woman is shaped to what they want.
Sometimes the frequent calls or text will be romantic and sometimes it will be irritating, it depends on the feelings of your woman at that moment or her belief about the act.
our belief and gender is different
We are brought up in different homes(sometimes different culture) with different belief and different gender(when he think like a man, she will act like a woman) before we finally agree to engage in romantic relationship.
There is no way that our words or action won’t contradict each other
molestation can occur in many ways
It maybe intentionally done
Maybe by mistake or playfully
Maybe that’s his or her own way of life
Maybe they doesn’t know that they’re hurting someone
Maybe they doesn’t have the idea of what they are doing
Maybe the current situation change their life
Maybe he or she thought that it’s the right thing to do
And if such things happens,before it could leads to
Sexual harassment or
follow the steps below
- Ask yourself about what can cause the sudden change
- Be patience and let him or her do the same thing again (don’t jump into judgement easily)
- Ask him or her the reasons for the actions
- Tell him or her that he or she is hurting you
- Tell him or her the repercussions of his or her action to the relationship