Effect Of Molestation In Romantic Relationship

Effect Of Molestation In Romantic Relationship

By: Adeshinah Adewuyi

Its not possible for me to conclude that your relationship with your spouse will always  go smoothly every time, without argument,or  annoyance.

The reasons is that

let us belief that nothing is permanent

Mood can change anytime

Feelings can change anytime etc

let us belief that nobody is perfect

Which means that we’re all liable to make mistakes which may leads to

Domestic violence

Divorce etc

woman like frustrating

To an extent that you can even forget that you’re a man and if you ain’t patience enough, it may leads to something else

For example

Sometimes they love doing what you’ve told them not to do.

men are frustrating

They love monitoring their spouse too much and love complaining especially when they are in love with someone, until that woman is shaped to what they want.

Sometimes the frequent calls or text will be romantic and sometimes it will be irritating, it depends on the feelings of your woman at that moment or her belief about the act.

our belief and gender is different

We are brought up in different homes(sometimes different culture) with different belief and different gender(when he think like a man, she will act like a woman) before we finally agree to engage in romantic relationship.

There is no way that our words or action won’t contradict each other

molestation can occur in many ways

It maybe intentionally done

Maybe by mistake or playfully

Maybe that’s his or her own way of life

Maybe they doesn’t know that they’re hurting someone

Maybe they doesn’t have the idea of what they are doing

Maybe the current situation change their life

Maybe he or she thought that it’s the right thing to do 

And if such things happens,before it could leads to 

Domestic violence

Domestic abuse

Sexual harassment or

Divorce

follow the steps below

• Ask yourself about what can cause the sudden change
• Be patience and let him or her do the same thing again (don’t jump into judgement easily)
• Ask him or her the reasons for the actions
• Tell him or her that he or she is hurting you
• Tell him or her the repercussions of his or her action to the relationship