Argument in Romantic Relationship

By: Adeshinah Adewuyi

since it seems to be impossible to live with someone for months or years without at least having a slight misunderstanding so it’s important to talk about this topic

what is Argument

Argument is a contentious speech act, a dispute where there is strong disagreement between two lovers or in Relationship

Causes of argument

There are many causes of argument and some of them may include

• Lack of studying the person that you’re in love with to know exactly the kind of words or act that will make them annoyed, you already know that calling him baby will make him feel embarrassed so you don’t have any reason to call him baby again
• disorganise: where husband is not ready to think like a man and allow wife to act like a woman
• Misinterpretation of what the husband or wife is trying to explain like help me to make coffee seems like domestic abuse to you
• Lack of endurance
• Lack of trust

Disadvantages of Argument

• Long time argument may leads to quarrel where husband will turn his wife to punching bag
• Murder
• Divorce
• Betray

so why can’t you just seek for forgiveness instead of trying to cover up your mess and let the devil go his own way

or when your spouse is angry just leave him/her alone and explain to him/her later when his/her brain is cool